The highly publicized divorce between Vanderpump Rules star Jax Taylor and his ex-wife Brittany Cartwright has taken another dramatic turn, with Jax Taylor recently revealing shocking details about how he discovered Cartwright was dating one of his own friends. The couple, who met in Las Vegas in 2015, had their ups and downs throughout their relationship, culminating in their decision to separate in early 2024. However, Taylor’s latest comments on the Bravo Hot Mic podcast shed new light on the breakdown of their marriage and the emotional turmoil he faced during the divorce process.
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A Shocking Revelation
During the November 14 episode of Hot Mic, Jax Taylor, whose real name is Jason Cauchi, recounted the painful moment when he found out that his ex-wife Brittany Cartwright was dating his friend Julian Sensley. The revelation came as a result of an unsettling discovery while he was sitting in his own home. Taylor explained that Cartwright’s phone was resting on the coffee table, and as a message from Sensley popped up on the screen, something didn’t sit right with him.
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“It was a simple message from Julian,” Taylor explained. “But it was at night, and it was just a very weird message.” It wasn’t long before Taylor confronted Cartwright about the message, leading to a tense conversation in which he claimed he caught her in several lies. After a prolonged discussion, Cartwright finally admitted to her relationship with Sensley, leaving Taylor in a state of shock.
“I was just in shock,” Taylor admitted. “I don’t think I would have been bothered by it if it was somebody else that I didn’t know. But the fact that it was one of my friends I brought into my group, it just felt like a slap in the face to me.”
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Taylor’s emotional reaction to this revelation was clear. As someone who had made Sensley a part of his inner circle, Taylor felt deeply betrayed not only by Cartwright but by a friend he trusted.
Boundaries and Betrayals
As the podcast continued, Taylor reflected on the boundaries he and Cartwright had established before their separation. Though both had agreed to date other people following their split, they had specifically discussed not involving people they both knew. Taylor admitted that it was painful to learn that Cartwright had ignored that agreement and started dating someone from his own friend group.
“There was a whole five or six months where I wasn’t seeing anybody, but this was going on,” Taylor said. “Yes, we were separated, but we were still hanging out with each other. Meanwhile, she was dating this guy.”
For Taylor, this breach of trust was particularly difficult to process because of the intimate nature of their relationship with Sensley. As someone who had put a lot of effort into maintaining friendships and relationships within his social circle, discovering that his ex-wife had developed a romantic relationship with a friend hit hard. He described it as a “slap in the face,” and the pain of being blindsided was evident in his voice during the interview.
A Taste of His Own Medicine
Jax Taylor’s comments also took a turn toward self-reflection. He admitted that he had been far from perfect during his marriage to Cartwright. Taylor has a notorious history when it comes to infidelity, notably cheating on Cartwright with Vanderpump Rules cast member Faith Stowers in 2017. This infidelity had been one of the most talked-about scandals on the reality show, and it was clear that the memory of his own mistakes still weighed heavily on him.
“It felt like I got a taste of my own medicine,” Taylor confessed. “I wasn’t the best guy when it came to our relationship, and I know that.” While acknowledging his past wrongdoings, Taylor appeared to indicate that he understood the emotional impact of betrayal—especially after having been on the other side of it.
In a candid moment, he shared how painful it was to be in the position where he was the one hurt by a partner’s actions, reflecting on his own infidelity and how it felt to experience the same emotions that Cartwright had gone through when he cheated on her.
The Divorce Process and Taylor’s Mental Health Struggles
The Vanderpump Rules star has been open about his struggles with mental health, including being diagnosed with PTSD and bipolar disorder. Taylor revealed that his decision to divorce Cartwright was influenced by his personal struggles and his time in rehab.
“I was in my second weekend of rehab when I made the decision,” Taylor shared. “I emailed Brittany and said, ‘I’m getting a mediator.’” According to Taylor, his decision was prompted by the desire to find a solution that wasn’t fueled by bitterness or animosity. “People don’t realize that I’m the one that initiated this,” he continued, emphasizing that he tried to avoid costly legal battles. “I was like, ‘Why don’t we just get a mediator? We’re not going after each other financially. There’s no reason to spend all this money.’”
However, his plans for an amicable divorce soon fell apart. After suggesting a mediator, Taylor claimed that just days later, Cartwright served him with divorce papers, signifying that she was taking a more traditional legal route. “I was like, ‘Okay, whatever,’” he said, reflecting on how quickly things escalated after his attempt at peace.
The Divorce Filing Fiasco
The divorce process has been riddled with complications. One of the more humorous, yet troubling, aspects of the divorce has been the paperwork errors made by Taylor. In his initial filing, Taylor mistakenly checked a box indicating that he and Cartwright were never legally married. This error led to confusion and delays in the proceedings.
“While Jax made errors in filling out forms that are usually done by trained legal professionals, those errors will be amended without delay,” a representative clarified to People. This minor mishap added to the stress of an already complex and emotionally charged situation.
A Rollercoaster of Emotions
The divorce has undoubtedly been a rollercoaster for Jax Taylor. From feelings of betrayal and heartbreak over Cartwright’s relationship with his friend to the challenges of navigating a divorce during a time of personal recovery, Taylor has had to confront both external and internal obstacles. Yet, he has remained open about his journey, shedding light on the complexities of life after reality TV fame.
With their son Cruz born in April 2021, Taylor and Cartwright’s divorce is also complicated by the responsibilities of co-parenting. The couple’s separation, which was announced in February 2024, has continued to evolve in the public eye, with both parties making headlines for different reasons.
While Taylor’s comments have provided a glimpse into his emotional state, the full scope of his and Cartwright’s future remains to be seen. Whether they can co-parent amicably or whether their divorce will continue to generate drama remains to be seen—but one thing is certain: the journey is far from over.
