Lala Kent, the former Vanderpump Rules star, is once again making waves in the public eye, this time responding to accusations that she is not giving enough attention to her eldest daughter, Ocean, after she referred to her newborn, Sosa, as her “dream baby.” The backlash has been swift and loud, with fans and critics alike questioning whether Kent’s comments about her daughters reveal favoritism toward her youngest child. But Kent, never one to shy away from addressing controversy, took to her Give Them Lala podcast on December 11 to set the record straight, slamming these accusations as misunderstandings that have been blown out of proportion.
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The Controversial Comment
The drama began when Lala Kent made a seemingly innocent remark about her baby daughter, Sosa. Kent, 34, described Sosa as her “dream baby” during an episode of her podcast, and that’s when the backlash started. Fans immediately took to social media, speculating that Kent’s words suggested she was somehow favoring Sosa over Ocean, her 3-year-old daughter from a previous relationship with film producer Randall Emmett. Some went so far as to suggest that Ocean could be hurt by her mother’s comments.
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Responding to these concerns, Kent was quick to defend herself. “People are even taking that as far as to say in the comment sections like, ‘How would you feel if you were Ocean and seeing things like that?’ And I’m like, ‘Why is everyone making a thing out of nothing?’” Kent said during her podcast episode. She was frustrated by what she saw as a misinterpretation of her words, noting that her relationship with both of her daughters is unique and cannot be reduced to simple sound bites.
Explaining the Term “Dream Baby”
Kent further clarified what she meant by calling Sosa her “dream baby.” She explained that the term held special significance for her, especially considering the circumstances surrounding her pregnancy with Sosa. “She is the dream baby because she wasn’t the product of just two people falling in love and procreating or a one-night stand,” Kent explained. “She was the dream baby because I thought so hard on her and thought, ‘How am I going to make this happen?’ I really want a baby on my own, but how do I do it?’”
For Kent, Sosa’s arrival was the culmination of a long journey toward becoming a mother again after her turbulent breakup with Emmett. After her high-profile and messy split, Kent had expressed a desire to expand her family on her own terms. She turned to intrauterine insemination (IUI) to conceive Sosa, a process she documented openly with her fans. She described it as a very personal decision—one rooted in her desire for independence and control over her life and future.
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Ocean: The “Golden Child”
While addressing the comments about Sosa, Kent also took a moment to speak lovingly about her firstborn, Ocean. She explained that Ocean holds a special place in her heart as her “golden child.” Kent shared that the term “golden child” wasn’t meant to indicate any form of favoritism, but rather a reflection of the special bond the two share. “She’s my golden child because No. 1, what we experienced,” Kent said. She was referring to the difficult and emotional journey of raising Ocean as a single mother after her split from Emmett, which included navigating the challenges of co-parenting and the constant scrutiny that came with being a public figure.
Kent also described Ocean as a fiery personality—“so freaking spicy and so freaking sweet all at the same time”—which only deepened her love for her eldest daughter. Kent’s words reflected the complexity and depth of her relationship with Ocean, as well as the pride she feels in being a mother to such a strong-willed little girl.
Despite the accusations of favoritism, Kent made it clear that both of her daughters hold unique and irreplaceable places in her heart. She explained that calling Sosa her “dream baby” in no way diminishes the love she has for Ocean. Instead, it is a reflection of the special circumstances surrounding Sosa’s birth and the fulfillment of a deeply personal dream.
A New Chapter: Life with Two Daughters
Kent’s life took a significant turn when she welcomed Sosa into the world in September. The transition from one child to two has not been without its challenges, but Kent has embraced the change with open arms. She shared that Ocean has already formed a deep bond with her baby sister, calling the moment “love at first sight.” Kent posted on Instagram about the joy her daughters share together, describing how Ocean is absolutely obsessed with Sosa. She wrote, “We are all over the moon about the newest addition to our pod. I can’t wait to share all the moments of this new chapter and blessing in our life. I’ve been enjoying every second. Lots of skin-to-skin, lots of boobie time, lots of staring and thanking God.”
In her podcast, Kent also discussed how she had always dreamed of expanding her family on her own terms, and how fulfilling it has been to see that dream come true. She noted the “structure” she’s created for her family and reflected on how she had envisioned this moment of motherhood for so long. “She arrived and she’s healthy and happy,” Kent said. “The structure that I’ve created, it’s like, ‘Wow, I had dreams about this moment of expanding my family by myself and we did it.’”
Confronting the Backlash
Despite her clear explanation, Kent admitted that the public backlash has been difficult to deal with at times. She expressed feeling like she was being unfairly judged, particularly when it came to her parenting. “I don’t know how we took on that term because I had to discipline Ocean. Then all the comments, I feel like not a good parent right now,” she said.
While Kent acknowledges the pressure and judgment that often comes with being a public figure, she remains steadfast in her belief that she’s doing the best she can for both of her daughters. She has faced countless challenges in her personal life, from her breakup with Emmett to the ongoing scrutiny of her every move, but through it all, she’s remained focused on being a loving and dedicated mother.
The Power of Love and Understanding
Lala Kent’s response to the backlash serves as a reminder of the complexities of motherhood, particularly for public figures who are constantly under the microscope. While her words may have been misinterpreted by some, Kent’s love for her daughters is evident in everything she does. Whether she’s referring to Ocean as her “golden child” or calling Sosa her “dream baby,” the underlying message is clear: both of her daughters are deeply loved and cherished, each in their own unique way.
As Kent continues to navigate the ups and downs of motherhood, she’s learning to tune out the noise and stay focused on what truly matters—the love and connection she shares with her two daughters. After all, in the world of motherhood, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach, and each child is a blessing in its own right.
